Jesus commends to us the most simple, root teachings of our Judeo-Christian scriptures in two simple practices:
1. “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind’ (Matt. 22:37).^1
2. ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself’" (Matt. 22:39).^2
Love - unconditional, unabashed, wholly committed, freely given - is the common concern of these practices.
In the Koine Greek in which the New Testament was written, several words are translated into English as love. "Agape" is the specific kind of love identified as "the unconditional, self-sacrificing, and volitional love of God for humans through Jesus, which they ought also to reciprocate by practicing agape love towards God and among themselves."^3
Jesus is teaching us to feel in our heart, quicken in our daily living experiences, and hold as ideal in our consciousness, this unconditional, unabashed, wholly committed, freely given love his Father has for us; and that we should share this same agape love within our own heart, for ourselves, and all those with whom we interact. This vitalizing response to life is to permeate every aspect of our lives, from the way we think, how we feel, and the behaviors we exhibit.
Pretty simple! Love one another as I have loved you. (John 13:34)
Easy? Quite the opposite! In fact, we often find this extremely difficult!
Imagine a person at school or work maligns you or physically harms you. What is our most natural human reaction to this mistreatment? Usually, it is NOT to love that person with our whole heart, soul, and mind. Yet responding to harm with agape love is the teaching of Jesus!
And Jesus follows his own teaching. At his crucifixion, nailed to the cross, Jesus says, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).^4
This is a difficult teaching! It goes against our human nature to love those who harm us. Are we the better for loving unconditionally? When casting our eyes to our long term spiritual development and maturity, Jesus and the saints answer that it IS in our own best interest to be so freely forgiving and unconditionally loving.
As Christians we seek to embody Christ, heart, soul, and mind. We will fall short of this mark a great many times, to be sure. But we are to recommit ourselves to not only becoming adopted sons and daughters of God in a theoretical sense, and not only in a spiritual sense, but also in a very real day-in-day-out sense in how we choose to live our lives, and in how we permit ourselves to express our behavior.
To be clear. I am NOT saying this is easy! I am NOT saying we can do this all the time, or perhaps even most of the time. But we must extend to ourselves a degree of charity, and seek through the Grace of God, that we may over time, return again and again to these ideals we hold to be sacred.
We are on a journey. We are growing and maturing over time. And as we practice, so the more we become. Ever so slowly at times. Sometimes more easily than others. Sometimes sliding back into destructive states of mind or behaviors. But we are not done, unless we give up! It is not so important that we fail and fall back into times of darkness; we are human, and this is going to happen to us. What IS important is how we respond to these times of trial:
§ Acknowledge our shortcomings.
§ Sincerely feel repentant.
§ Sincerely recommit our self to correcting our mistakes and misdeeds.
§ Sincerely recommit our self to doing better now!
§ Seek the Grace of God, enabling us to overcome our shortcomings.
May the Peace of Christ be with you,
Erik++
Monsignor Erik
Associate Dean, Ekklesia Epignostika Seminary
Associate Dean, Ekklesia Epignostika Seminary